Why this blog?
do you ever feel like no matter what you do or where you go in the world, there are just things that don’t fit? Maybe you don’t agree with those around you, you keep fucking up at work, you can’t seem to make relationships last or commit to the bit of sustainable self-care. Yeah . . . that’ll happen! Like sometimes things are going really well, it’s easy to be proud of yourself, and making scary moves doesn’t feel so gut-wrenching. Other times, shit SUCKS. Soooo bad. And it’s so hard to move forward and you wonder why you do it all and it just fucking sucks.
Welllll that’s why I’m writing this. I’ve felt all of these things and have gone to therapy and committed to exercise and ate bad and well and felt good about my style and not and gotten a degree but fucked up at work blah blah blah blah. No one cares. What we do care about is the shared experience of living, suffering, trying, failing, hurting, and loving. THAT is what this blog is for. At the heart of this project is the idea that adapting, learning, and loving are the only ways to keep moving forward when shit sucks. The heart of this blog is all of our experiences, especially those we don’t share with anyone. The experiences that exist in your mind and in your heart, the ones you know are real and the ones that you would have a hard time explaining to others.
Maybe others wouldn’t get how you feel, or you think you might explain it wrong, or you think they wouldn’t believe you, or to explain it you have to sound dumb, or look bad, or bend the truth, etc. I’m going to try to just say all that shit. And you can add your thoughts, take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, or just scroll away. If one person reads my thoughts and feels seen, this project will have been a success.
Well, I’m going to try to just say all of that shit. And you can add your thoughts, or not. Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t. IF one person reads my thoughts and feels seen or connected, this project will have been a success.
I am so excited to share and I’m so excited that you’re here!
All love,
Kate